More than that. Sex is weaponized, here. Aphrodisiacs in your food, drugs in your system, public enforcement. Citations. It's easy - especially if this is something you've dealt with before - to think, when you're alone, that your self-worth is related to sex. Between that, and being told as a submissive that your entire existence is to serve someone in a higher caste to you... It's just easy to lose sight of yourself sometimes. Staying close to people who love you for who you are - that's what keeps you from spiraling.
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Sex is weaponized, here. Aphrodisiacs in your food, drugs in your system, public enforcement. Citations.
It's easy - especially if this is something you've dealt with before - to think, when you're alone, that your self-worth is related to sex.
Between that, and being told as a submissive that your entire existence is to serve someone in a higher caste to you...
It's just easy to lose sight of yourself sometimes.
Staying close to people who love you for who you are - that's what keeps you from spiraling.
[ that's been his experience, at least. ]