It takes... practice. Work. I'll need to see you in person, if you want me to show you how to do it. It's about willpower. Control. You need anchors. Crutches. Reasons to remind you to be better. You need an outlet for that anger. Something that makes you feel good. Drained.
[ this would be so much easier to explain if tate were a werewolf, instead of some harmless kid who probably just broke up with his girlfriend of two weeks over something petty and small and stupid. ]
If she's talking to you, yeah. Shows she's willing to listen. You just need to keep being there. Being kind, without being demanding, and without expectations. Talk to her more. Without being overwhelming.
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It's about willpower. Control.
You need anchors. Crutches. Reasons to remind you to be better.
You need an outlet for that anger. Something that makes you feel good. Drained.
[ this would be so much easier to explain if tate were a werewolf, instead of some harmless kid who probably just broke up with his girlfriend of two weeks over something petty and small and stupid. ]
If she's talking to you, yeah. Shows she's willing to listen.
You just need to keep being there. Being kind, without being demanding, and without expectations.
Talk to her more. Without being overwhelming.