I was thinking more "put some fairy lights around the treehouse and tell Marcus you want to spend the holidays with him" than something so extreme and permanent. Maybe get him a present that would mean a lot to him, though? That's permanent enough.
Don't confuse hesitation or someone needing time with rejection. Even if he doesn't understand what you're trying to offer him or isn't on the same page as you, if he still wants to stick around or be with you, he's just figuring things out. Communicating with you. No healthy relationship is based on two people saying yes to each other about everything.
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Maybe get him a present that would mean a lot to him, though?
That's permanent enough.
Don't confuse hesitation or someone needing time with rejection.
Even if he doesn't understand what you're trying to offer him or isn't on the same page as you, if he still wants to stick around or be with you, he's just figuring things out. Communicating with you.
No healthy relationship is based on two people saying yes to each other about everything.
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