Big gestures and big asks aren't going to fix things between you. Girls don't actually like it when guys John Cusack outside their windows playing music from a boombox. That much emotion, that much responsibility - it'll scare her away. Especially if she's already asked for some space. But. The fact that she's talking to you at all is a good sign.
[ he thinks. what would he know. he's old and unlovable, he can't dissect teenage romance. ]
Just circle back around, I guess. Keep things casual. If she's willing to give you more than that, she'll bring it up on her own. If she's willing to sign you, she'll bring that up on her own, too, now that she knows you need it, but. I wouldn't get your hopes up too high. You should find a couple of safety nets.
Just - you don't want to hold on to your past forever. You have an opportunity here to move on and find someone new. Don't make yourself miserable for someone who doesn't want you the way you want them.
I know you don't want to, but - If she doesn't want to be with you, what's the alternative? Pining after her until she changes her mind? Crying about how much you miss her? Don't be stupid. You're smarter than that. There'll be other girls.
I like you. Stiles likes you. I know that's not what you mean, but. She was your first. Not your last. You'll find someone else. Someone else after that, too, probably. That's how life works.
I can help you find focus. What do you like to do? I know you like reading. You could write something.
sometimes things are just... so important to me she was that thing. before her I was just
[trying to give a ghost a baby, uh]
it's not like a hobby or like. I guess it's a passion but it doesn't feel like something I can just pick it just happens. and in between I feel like useless shit
[ this, to derek, sounds like something tate could find if he were pack. a constant routine of protecting yourself and protecting others and finding value and self-worth in that kind of survival. derek doesn't bring up the bite, but. thinks about it. ]
["If someone makes you feel safe, whether just in general, or maybe talking about something, or if you feel confident in relying on them, they're probably someone you can trust." Something Stiles said to him, that Tate's thinking over. While, ironically, Stiles and Derek are lowkey betraying that trust. IT'S COOL.]
my siblings couldn't always protect themselves. if I'd done a better job, my brother would've probably still been alive
[ fuck, poor tate. you were a kid, derek types, hypocritically. the damage he did at sixteen is immeasurable. while he thinks tate had way more responsibility on his shoulders than derek ever did and really can't be blamed for anything that might have happened, he - can't argue that without thinking of himself.
carefully, derek navigates another stream, instead. ]
[ derek... gets an idea of what happened. it'd - be easy, to bridge the distance here and say that he understands what it's like to be betrayed. to talk about paige's death, orchestrated through peter and delivered by someone else. to go into detail about why kate burned his family, caging eleven people in his basement. for a good, long second, he actually considers it, but. ]
You were only a kid. You're still a kid. You couldn't have known your mother would do something like that. Wouldn't have been able to stop her if you did.
Can't think like that. You would have done more if you knew, but. You didn't. Not your fault. You're a victim in all of this, too.
I had two sisters. One older, one younger. Laura and I were both at school when the fire hit. We survived. We lived together for six years. Recovering. I relied on her more than I should have. She was too young for all that responsibility. She was murdered. Not long ago. I killed her killer. Tore his throat open. I know what it's like. Hating someone that hurt your family.
[ there were motivations behind peter's death that went beyond revenge. reasons why derek killed him that would make him sound less morally reprehensible, if he brought them up. reasons why killing peter was the only way to stop beacon hills from being terrorized, reasons why killing peter would prevent countless deaths. he's not - going to bring any of that up, because what he did was horrible, and he's not going to try to justify it. ]
that doesn't surprise derek as much as he thought it would. he actually just... slowly exhales, feeling his shoulders slump, like he's been waiting for another shoe to drop and it finally has. like he's pulled off a bandaid, rather than been confronted by something new.
tate's dangerous. tate's always been dangerous. derek knew this. it's hard being confronted with that, but it's not as if he can't understand why it happened, and - and he just instinctively, naturally assumes that tate regrets what he did as much as derek regrets hurting peter. he just - goes into this wishing he knew how to ease the guilt he's so so sure tate must be feeling. ]
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after reading the messages
kinda cold?
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I do that all the time. To everyone. It might not be personal.
What did you say before she stopped replying?
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I know it's a lot. Too much.
but I just thought...
I thought she would've at least thought about it after
after everything we had.
[#tragicallyobsessed]
Guess I freaked her out
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Big gestures and big asks aren't going to fix things between you.
Girls don't actually like it when guys John Cusack outside their windows playing music from a boombox.
That much emotion, that much responsibility - it'll scare her away. Especially if she's already asked for some space.
But.
The fact that she's talking to you at all is a good sign.
[ he thinks. what would he know. he's old and unlovable, he can't dissect teenage romance. ]
When do you have to be signed by?
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[Emphasis on "little".]
we were going good before that though
texting back and forth felt like old times
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Just circle back around, I guess. Keep things casual.
If she's willing to give you more than that, she'll bring it up on her own.
If she's willing to sign you, she'll bring that up on her own, too, now that she knows you need it, but.
I wouldn't get your hopes up too high. You should find a couple of safety nets.
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[Big response. He's quiet, letting it sit.]
without talking about how stupid it was to ask or whatever
it's ok to be
to feel like shitty, right
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Just - you don't want to hold on to your past forever.
You have an opportunity here to move on and find someone new.
Don't make yourself miserable for someone who doesn't want you the way you want them.
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she was so important.
moving on makes that feel like
a lie or something.
I don't want to
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If she doesn't want to be with you, what's the alternative?
Pining after her until she changes her mind? Crying about how much you miss her?
Don't be stupid. You're smarter than that. There'll be other girls.
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["what if nobody does, again?" Emo. Emo. Emo.]
I just feel like I don't have a focus
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She was your first. Not your last.
You'll find someone else. Someone else after that, too, probably.
That's how life works.
I can help you find focus.
What do you like to do? I know you like reading. You could write something.
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I just
sometimes things are just... so important to me
she was that thing. before her I was just
[trying to give a ghost a baby, uh]
it's not like a hobby or like. I guess it's a passion
but it doesn't feel like something I can just pick
it just happens. and in between I feel like useless shit
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What were you passionate about before Violet?
[ other than ghost baby. ]
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I used to have to protect my family, I guess
hating my mother took up a lot of my time
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Your mom?
[ he already knows about this, to an extent - the things tate told stiles got relayed back to him, but. not gonna broadcast that. ]
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["If someone makes you feel safe, whether just in general, or maybe talking about something, or if you feel confident in relying on them, they're probably someone you can trust." Something Stiles said to him, that Tate's thinking over. While, ironically, Stiles and Derek are lowkey betraying that trust. IT'S COOL.]
my siblings couldn't always protect themselves.
if I'd done a better job, my brother would've probably still been alive
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carefully, derek navigates another stream, instead. ]
What happened?
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- my mom was a terrible, selfish cunt
- her boyfriend was a spineless fool
- my brother was a nuisance
can you put the 3 points together into a cohesive story
that ends with beau dying? it's not that hard.
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You were only a kid. You're still a kid.
You couldn't have known your mother would do something like that. Wouldn't have been able to stop her if you did.
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[Besides shoot up a school, nbd.]
afterward she just pretended it didn't happen
said he just had an illness. like he
[a pause. boy needs a second.]
like fucking lawrence didnt smother him to death
fucking cocksucker then tried to parent us
I fucking hate that tool
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You would have done more if you knew, but. You didn't.
Not your fault. You're a victim in all of this, too.
I had two sisters. One older, one younger.
Laura and I were both at school when the fire hit. We survived.
We lived together for six years. Recovering. I relied on her more than I should have. She was too young for all that responsibility.
She was murdered. Not long ago.
I killed her killer. Tore his throat open.
I know what it's like. Hating someone that hurt your family.
[ there were motivations behind peter's death that went beyond revenge. reasons why derek killed him that would make him sound less morally reprehensible, if he brought them up. reasons why killing peter was the only way to stop beacon hills from being terrorized, reasons why killing peter would prevent countless deaths. he's not - going to bring any of that up, because what he did was horrible, and he's not going to try to justify it. ]
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[Tate wants to share. Wants to talk. Can't share. Can't talk.
Shouldn't. Shouldn't. Shouldn't.]
before I died
I tried to kill Lawrence too
didn't succeed.
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that doesn't surprise derek as much as he thought it would. he actually just... slowly exhales, feeling his shoulders slump, like he's been waiting for another shoe to drop and it finally has. like he's pulled off a bandaid, rather than been confronted by something new.
tate's dangerous. tate's always been dangerous. derek knew this. it's hard being confronted with that, but it's not as if he can't understand why it happened, and - and he just instinctively, naturally assumes that tate regrets what he did as much as derek regrets hurting peter. he just - goes into this wishing he knew how to ease the guilt he's so so sure tate must be feeling. ]
You felt cornered.
I get it. It's okay.
You've been through a lot.
More than most people.
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he shouldn't have been able to do all that
to hurt so many people.
[Rich, coming from Tate.]
i just couldn't stand his fucking face
smiling and talking about taking us to the theater
after he fucking killed my brother.
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